7.05.2026

Forget-Me-Not Thoughts

Forget-me-not blues. 
These have dotted my garden in years past, but they 
always seem to die out. Not in an ugly 
way--just not there when you look for them
in the spring. 

When I browsed hopeful rows of perennials this year, the 
sky blue and yellow color combination caught my eye. 
The plant name struck my heart and sealed the deal. 
"You're coming home with me." 
Do you ever whisper to your plants? 
Maybe we shouldn't admit such things.


The blooms are intricately crafted dainties, clustered 
in small bouquets. This would have been enough, 
but my macro lens revealed an extra bit of shareable beauty.
 Tiny yellow hearts ring the center, 
one heart for each petal.


In a season of home-goings, this plant spoke the 
exact language I needed to express a deluge 
of thoughts, emotions, and grief.

A backyard garden often reflects its keeper in this way. 
The gardener walks the rows and remembers--
these were Grandma's favorite flowers.

She spreads protective mulch and ponders--

In hottest July, she waters dry ground and nods along 
with the Master Gardener, whose plan is continually unfolding--

What reminders do the plants in your garden offer? 
What memories do they whisper at nightfall?
Do its citizens inspire any lofty ambitions? 

I'd love to know. 




2.23.2026

Hope Tenders

 
January was bleak and quiet, a proper rest after months of holidays piling one 
on top of the next. A person can only eat so much sweet potato casserole*, even if 
the crumble topping is flawlessly crisp and thick.

February's unpredictable nature in this commonwealth may have you shoveling 
snow in your barn boots and sunbathing on the back porch in the same week
But as soon as January blows away from this Kentucky landscape, 
you'll find me peering under carpets of leaf mulch, looking for new garden growth. 

Already, the daffodils are inches above ground. 
Thyme plants (lemon and woolly) are greening up and nearly fragrant. 
Daylilies and irises, those workhorses, are 
pushing bold spikes of life above last year's litter.

And the star of February, the Lenten rose, is well on her way
 to making my heart content. Fragile pink blooms  
despite snow and freezing temps. It boggles the skeptical 
mind of this modern age. 

It's all about hope, isn't it? 
*
The sun will shine again, at its full strength.
* 
What we thought was long-gone might, against all odds, reappear. 
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What seems dead really can become alive again. 
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Gardeners are hope-tenders.



*Subscribe to my newsletter on Substack, and I'll send you my tried-and-true, much-requested sweet potato casserole recipe. The February installment of "Homeplaces" came out last week. Here's a link to take you there. Message me on Substack with your email address, and you'll have the recipe in time for Easter dinner. 




1.28.2026

Weary Beauty

Old and banged up. 
Rusted and worn. 
Still sharing a weary kind of beauty, 
appreciated by some, cast off by others. 


The original function of these watering cans is long in the 
past. No longer do they tote an early morning drink for 
the roses. Never again will one be used to rinse mud 
from toddler toes or to bathe a wiggling pup. 
Leaky seams, missing spout heads, 
and split handles prevent that. 

But position one just so in a springtime planter, 
and you have something unique.
So much to ponder there, friends.


The kindness of flowers in a time of grief is another ponder-worthy topic. 
The gentle joy a vase of blooms lends to a house of sorrow far outweighs the cost. 
I'm beyond thankful for this version of generosity. 

My January newsletter is up on Substack
Click the link to take a peek.